"Barbara helped us explore the how's and why's of our love 
and turn it into a ceremony that was exactly what we wanted." 
~ Kelly and Craig

It's all about you. Your words. Your style. Your love. We share who you two are to each other, bonding you and your guests in joy and understanding. 
Our wedding motto is, "Have Fun, Be True." What makes each of these ceremonies unique is their different creative processes. 


Hot Tub Wedding
Begin your marriage in bliss, in deep shared peace and pleasure.  Get married in a luxurious hot tub, in your own private room at a beautiful spa. Enjoy a fun, meaningful custom ceremony, and toast with champagne. Then, savor a couples massage. Spend the rest of your special day or eve in the spa's saunas and pools, hand in hand, heart to heart.
• 2 hour private spa room, hot tub ceremony, couples massage, $1450   (Ask about extra time, services, catering)

Helicopter Wedding
A private helicopter flight for up to 4 people where you get married right in the helicopter! Soar together in love above the magnificent New York City skyline, including the Empire State Building, Times Square, and Central Park. Fly into your marriage with a customized ceremony, exchanging your rings and kiss in the air!
• 30 minute daytime flight & ceremony, $2450
• Ask about evening charter flights

Quickie Elopement

The brevity of a simple City Hall style ceremony meets the sweetness of your own expression, and in a special location you choose, whether a park, restaurant, hotel, boat, classic car, horse carriage...
• Easy as can be, I ask you if you want to wed, and you both say your version of "yes." Then you speak freely to each other, expressing your promises, made in both passion and peace.
• We pronounce you married and sign your papers.

$350 elopements only


Live interviews, Questionnaires and Editing, before your wedding.

• A fully customizable ceremony we write together. 
• We start with an inspiring ideas meeting. As you two share your love story and wedding wishes, we intuit and invent your one-of-a-kind wedding elements. 
• Then, you enjoy two questionnaires, one about your feelings and how you live your love, the other about logistic (rings, aisles, parachuting in...).
• Next, you experience our warm and fun live interviews, both solo and together, either in person or over Skype, if you live outside New York City. 
• I create a draft honoring all I have learned about your love.
• We edit back and forth with cheer. 
• You can include your special guests with special roles in your ceremony. They will feel honored. 
$1950 Fri-Sun
$1750 Mon-Thu

Questionnaires and Editing, before your wedding.

• We start with a ceremony structure I've created over years of celebrating good love. 
• You enjoy two questionnaires, one solo and one together. Share your answers with each other, or be surprised. 
• I then design a draft for you two, using your words and feelings. 
• We edit together with dear joy. 
Roles for special guests are welcome. 
$1450 Fri-Sun
$1250 Mon-Thu

Live Questions at your wedding, in a Pre-Written ceremony.

• You experience a lovely pre-written ceremony I've crafted - and we personalize it to you two on your wedding day.
• How? Via questions I ask you two live during your ceremony. You can know our questions in advance to prepare your answers to read aloud, or you can be surprised with our questions on your wedding day. Usually, your officiant and readers do almost all the talking. It's rare, fun, and moving for your guests to hear you two speak about your love. 
• You also can include special guests reading, singing, juggling, etc. 
$850 Fri-Sun
$650 Mon-Thu


Marry Your Self

Make a joyful and solid commitment to yourself before you pledge to your beloved. Part of lasting partnership is keeping yourself healthy, so you can bring your best self to your spouse, and encourage their best self, too. In good love, you gain yourself, rather than lose yourself. 

Honor your own strengths,  joy, intentions to grow, and dreams in a 3-session Marry Your Self program. You can enjoy separate ceremonies or side by side ceremonies, combining your dreams into your shared path! Guests welcome.

By Myself: $850

With my Partner: $1450

YOU'RE INVITED! our Couples' Anniversary Party, a party for all couples who ever have celebrated your weddings with me, your officiant and Jester of the Peace.

Your wedding will be a happy, beautiful, and true celebration of
your lasting love!